Re: Deal Gone Bad
Posted: Fri Dec 14, 2012 10:46 am
mech wrote:hes on lp101 alot, pm him there... ive also had good trades with him in the past.... keep on at it
Good to see ya Tom... and thanks for the heads up on that. However, I feel I've done more than enough reminding & chasing. Really this post is just to conclude my part in all this so I can spend my energy else where. Honestly the lock and/or money is quite meaningless to me at this point and doesn't bother me in the least. More important to me would be a gesture of acknowledgment.
I do not mean to come across arrogant, cocky, or judgemental. In fact, this is not even neccessarily aimed squarely at Rick... more so, this is just my general approach over-all when it comes to dealing with people. When I meet someone, they have a clean slate in my book, regardless of their reputation. This takes the possibility of pre-judging out of the equation. I don't care who you are or what you've done - your bad rep or stellar track record mean nothing to me.
Instead I base my opinions souly on MY personal encounters with you. It takes time to build trust with me, and only a second to break it. Once broken... you start back at square one. I've fucked up more times than I care to remember and I'm grateful for second chances. If someone wants to put forth the effort to start over... I am RIGHT THERE without hesitation or ill feelings.... willing and ready to do the same.
It's hard to say this in a 'nice' way without sounding a bit blunt. But the bottom line (just my opinion) is this: I would not DREAM of accepting a payment from someone without it being followed up with a prompt and valiant effort on my part, doing everything in my power to fufill the commitment a made when I took their money. If some spactacular event (and it would take alot) simply would not allow me to do so.... then (at the very least!) I would keep in contact with you. I'm sorry, but sending a pm takes 2 minutes of your time... probably less. To not respond or keep in contact with someone (whether it's due to forgetfullness, disorganization, or just plain ignoring them) is a slap in the face and very disrespectful. I like to think I'm one of the nicest people you'll meet... but if you cross me, I will tell you about it. Not because I'm an asshole, but because I respect myself.
Rick, I'm sorry to say this. But if you have that much time to be over on lp101...
then you've had plenty of time to respond to my pm when you opened and read it 2 months ago.